This past week we have studied in discussed thoroughly the many benefits and detriments of online dating. We had started off with a documentary that showcased a particular detrimental attribute to online dating, as it resulted in a large financial scam. Another characteristic of the online dating that was retrieved was the general age trends that were consistent throughout the studies. It was also important to note that most online daters did not have too high a level of optimism and were generally aware of the circumstances.
As the week started out with the online scam documentary, half of me had felt sorry for the victim. The other, perhaps better half, however, felt that it was more so her own fault. To give the financial information that she had provided to somebody she had never met almost amazed me. I believe it was rather naïve on her part to provide this particular information. At the same time, it is very unfortunate that yet again the internet makes it easier to attain this particular information for personal benefit. Scams go on all the time in this day and age.
Another trend I believe we collectively noticed was the age group that utilized the dating services the most. It was concluded in the studies that this consisted of older folk who perhaps had less time to gather in favorable social settings that can result in a type of relationship. We can assess that the online dating services are not only beneficial to this group, but of those who have more unique personalities and characteristics. After personally registering with one site (out of curiosity), I noticed questions that seemed rare but knew that these were deemed necessary by the service to make the best matches possible. What turned me off was ultimately the fee to actually see pictures, in addition to realizing that I’m still in the most favorable social setting to attain a relationship.
Lastly, I thought the particular awareness of environment, demonstrated by an individual account presented in the pew study (Tuesday), was important. This particular individual had said that despite one lady claiming she was a “striking blonde,” his expectations were not met, yet she was “a pretty good bowler.” This optimism shows an important mindset that all should have in the online dating game: people are not what always what they say they are. Ultimately it is up to the other party to make that decision for him/herself. This is where online dating for those who have high hopes can become problematic. However, it is generally useful, especially for those seeking a relationship who may not have the time nor means to do so. In all cases, it is especially important to draw a line on the type of information to disclose. After all, you never really know who is “seeking” you.
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